- Saturday
Tata FrikyA girl in my neighbourhood helped neighbours make a safer crossing for children.
Amazing. I can barely gather three people to pick a restaurant 💀
KossiAnd then you say “anything is fine.”
Tata FrikyExactly. So when people say “you can change Africa too,” I ask: with what?
NadiaMaybe we don't start with “change Africa.”
Tata FrikyThat won't look as good on a poster, Nadia.
NadiaI know. What problem actually bothers you?
Tata FrikyThe muddy path near the school. I think about it whenever I see the children jumping across.
KossiAre you going to build a bridge?
Tata FrikyWith my bank card? It would last fourteen seconds 😭
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NadiaDo you know what the families want?
Tata FrikyA dry crossing, I suppose.
NadiaYou suppose. Ask them.
Tata FrikyOh. Yes. Maybe I rushed straight to MY solution.
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KossiAnd if they need something you can't provide?
Tata FrikyThat's what scares me. Promising help and then disappearing.
NadiaThen say what you can do. Listen, connect people, find the right office. Don't play saviour.
Tata FrikyOne mother said the school knows. A neighbour says he sent a photo already. Nobody knows what happened after.
KossiThen maybe the first step isn't even new. Find out what happened to that report.
Tata FrikyYou had a useful idea and look shocked by it.
KossiDon't tell anyone.
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Tata FrikyThat helps a little. But what if I spend an hour on this and nothing changes?
NadiaThat happens. A small action isn't a promise of results.
KossiAnd not every problem is solved by volunteering. Some need money, trained workers and an official decision.
Tata FrikyI know. I just want to stop thinking that because I'm not rich or famous, my only option is commenting on someone else's video.
I can ask a better question. Pass on information. Connect two people. I still don't know what will help here.
NadiaAsk the families first. Then tell us what they said, not what you imagined.
Tata FrikyDeal. Afrikyf has a story about small community actions taking shape.
Tata FrikyWhat's your biggest barrier to acting? Have you tried something tiny that helped? Or tried and failed? I want both stories. 👀